As a trans-femme, non-binary person, this has been a really mind-bending question for me, but less from how it impacts the definition of my partners’ orientation, and more from how it affects my own. I have always been and continue to be primarily attracted to femme-presenting people, but I don’t identify as a woman or as a man. So…. I can’t be straight, nor can I be gay. I mean, it’s not as if the question is keeping me from living a happy and productive life, but it IS one that I really just don’t have the language to properly answer.